At times your world may turn so grey that you think you can never catch a spark of magic again. But I suggest to wise magicians that this is a signal to stop and ask a few question of yourself and the universe. Suppose you are just worried about another person's troubles and don't know what you can do to make it better for them. Suppose all you can do is have faith in them and give them a hug or a pat on the back. As you think about consoling your friend you may realize that you need a bit of consolation for yourself. The magic of consolation is that it buys a bit of time and it hooks into the belief that things actually can get better.
So go ahead and say to your inner child something like this: "There, there. I know that skies are grey. I know that you have lost a sense of sparkle. I know that you have worries. It is okay. If you hang in there a bit you can praise yourself for hanging in there. Won't that be a bit of magic when you can praise yourself?"
This might make you smile a bit at the way you have turned the tables on the inconsolable part of your character. I don't deny that there is awful tragedy in life. But they pass. Love yourself and others and give support in coming through the storm back into the magical world of sunshine and flowers. Be consolable. Give comfort. It is deserved. May the spark be with you.
Wednesday, March 26, 2014
Sunday, March 23, 2014
Sparkle is a very important part of magic. Think of the stories and movies you have read and watched. The good witches and wonderful fairies were all bright and sparkly. There is a reason for this. Sparkle is a part of the life force. Sit back and contemplate any mundane object in front of you. Now let the sparkle of that object come through. You might perceive a richness in the color or texture of the object. Or you might be reminded of rich experiences that said object has given you. I see a small web cam in front of me. I have captured some pictures for my Wordmaeven page with it. I am reminded of the large and exciting world of communicating with others. A book may remind you of all the wonderful worlds you can enter by reading about them. As I contemplate the objects in front of me I feel energized. Looking for the extra aura of things is a way to hook into more life energy. Another aspect of "sparkle" is to bond you to things or people. The throw I use to keep warm when I am watching TV on cold Winter nights offers me more than warmth. I also like the tactile pleasure it gives and the rich color of it. I am bonded to it. So I say to all wise magicians, 'Seek out the sparkle in yourself.' You can look in the mirror and note your expressions as you tell a funny story. You have adopted voice inflections, hand gestures, and figures of speech through the years. This is part of your sparkle. Appreciate your sparkle and feel free to develop more. Your are a lively, magical being, a valuable part of the Universe. Enjoy your place. May the spark be with you.
Monday, March 10, 2014
So many fairy tales and movies have the magician get into a hard spot then get out of it with a swoosh of a magic wand. Our mind set can get narrow that way. We can believe that every discomfort can be changed by the wave of a magic wand, by getting "Mommy or Daddy" to fix it, or by throwing money at it. But if we don't stand back from the problem we may not even know what it is that needs to be changed, or solved. Standing back also brings about a shift in the time frame. The wise magician will realize that a decent problem needs a decent amount of time to be dealt with. I say to all wise magicians, if you need a change take the time to decide what the best change would be. Then stand back and decide what to do. Stand back to gain confidence and clarity about working at what you want to have happen until you get it. I have seen people need a change but they have a pattern of showing irritation too soon, then after the blow-up, settling back into acceptance of the way things were. I have noticed that the people around them then didn't believe they really wanted that change, so they didn't continue to help them achieve it. Step back, look at you life, see what changes you need, see what you can do and do it. May the spark be with you.