Sometimes, when we think about 'getting our priorities straight' it is linked with the idea of an either or choice. If losing weight is a priority you will give up nightly hot fudge sundaes. But there can be a sense of peacefulness, therefore magic, when you know how to fit certain things into your time use schedule with a sense of "due time". It isn't just first things first, second things second and so on. When you schedule that way the third and fourth things often get left out totally. I suggest you make a to-do list of things you want to do. Let yourself become aware of things you think you want to do but your soul says they are not that important. Like keeping up with the Jones. Accept that certain things really need to get done or there will be trouble for you. Certain things need to get done at certain times of the day and week. I shouldn't be having the sprinkler going on the front lawn after 10 am and before 6pm. Doctor's appointments have to be made during clinic hours. Things like that. But it is perfectly fine to put clothes in the washer at midnight.There may be all kinds of time available to you to do things if you refuse to let time-wasting stress attack you.
Now, look at your list and your calendar and transcend any stress you feel about getting things on that list done. Tell yourself that things will get done, things will happen, in their due time. Look for things you can do while you are doing something else that doesn't require much attention. I used to knit in doctor's waiting rooms. I often pay bills while I am watching TV. Also look for things that you can do partially in small chunks of time. Assemble a casserole in the morning. Go to work, come home, take it out of the fridge, pop it in the oven and enjoy it for supper. Another way to make 'due time' work for you is to avoid trying to do things when your mental energy is low. I need to hand deliver a letter tomorrow. But it was hot when I found out where to take it and my brain was soft fudge. All I could do was sit in the room where the air conditioning unit is and try to put myself back together. Now I am rested and no longer suffering from the heat. I will probably write it after I post my blog. Or early tomorrow morning. Due time also kicks in when you try to find fun times for doing things. Very early in the morning is a joyous time for many people. Getting some physical work done at daybreak can be enjoyable. "Building a house before breakfast" was a saying often heard in my first father-in-law's household. Get up, work up an appetite then come back for breakfast and visiting when you are fully awake, was the idea.
So I say to all wise magicians: Do not let the need to get thing done give you stress. Your time is yours to control. Stress can make you forget to do things or take too long to do them. Develop a sense of "due time" and life will work better for you. May the spark be with you.